Friday, September 16, 2011

Photo of the baby!

I only have one other photo of the baby, but what a cute one!
Jake says she is doing well. I had a chance to talk to Cammy on the phone, and she is so happy! She said the birth as great, 9 pushes and there she was. She is nursing well and Cammy said she slept last night and was feeling very healthy. Cammy's mother went there on Thursday as previously planned, and arrived a few hours after the baby was born. I'm sure she will help out alot. Jake gets 10 days off from work, which will be a nice bonding opportunity.  I am also glad that Cassandra arrived early, I think she wanted to spend more time with her Dad...!!!!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

It's Official, Jerry is a DzaDza and I am ?????

Here is Cassandra
6 lbs 11 1/4 oz.
19 1/2 inches
1:56pm
Congratulations to the beautiful new family!

Wednesday 9/14/11 Nice Times with my cousins

Though it was a funeral, it was still a nice time. Weird, huh? But we had a beautiful mass with an Irish priest, who spoke about what we leave to our children when we die. How we should be aiming for the legacy of a love for JESUS, and a rich faith life rather than material possessions. Meg gave a fantastic eulogy, with laughter and tears. One great line was that she remembers her mom leaving the house to go to work smelling of Heaven Sent perfume, and coming home smelling of chocolate(she and Uncle John both worked for years at M&M Mars). The grandkids all spoke about their Grandma. Then we went to the Hanover Manor for lunch and had a chance to visit together. I was glad I had a chance to spend time with my Mom, even though it was short.  So it was sad and happy, and I am very glad that I went.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

History field trip

Homeschool field trips kicked off with a walking tour of the  Mount Tabor area, about 15 minutes from Susan's. This area was a Methodist Camp in the 1890's, run by the Methodist Church in Newark. Folks would come out for 2 weeks and stay in tents on 16X24 lots, spending lots of time in religious meetings and prayer sessions. Camp Meetings, which are outdoor religious revival services, began for the purpose of revitalizing faith, particularly in the aftermath of the American Civil War. In 1866 the “Newark Conference Camp Meeting Association of Methodists”, under the authority of the officers of the Newark Conference of the Methodist Episcopal Church, operated several annual Camp Meetings at Lake Speedwell near Morristown, NJ. When the owner of the land eventually told the Camp Meeting Association that he was going to sell the property, a group of the men began searching the countryside for a new campsite; they chose a wooded spread of land thick with underbrush and set upon a hill, which they named "Mount Tabor", after the location mentioned in the Bible as the place of Christ’s Transfiguration.
In August 1869, the crowds of Methodist campers, many of whom were from the large industrial cities in northern New Jersey, gathered in the rustic area for the ten day camp meeting. Before living in tents, many members set up home in their horse driven wagons in which they rode to the camp meeting. Many tent owners built wooden floors and cabinets inside their tents to protect belongings from the long, cold winter when the campers returned home (you can see still see this unique style of summer tent living in Ocean Grove today). Over the years the more affluent members of the community, prominent lawyers, ministers and doctors from the Jersey City, Newark, Paterson, Elizabeth and Morristown areas, were building decorative Victorian-style homes (albeit small enough to fit on 16- by 32- foot the tent lots), to make their encampment in the summer more comfortable.
The annual camp meetings, held for about ten days each August, were facilitated by the Camp Meeting Association trustees under the oversight of the Newark Conference of the Methodist Episcopal Church. The main focus of the camp meeting was to conduct religious services, which included preaching and prayer, and for the purpose of religious education.
Religious services were held once a day (Monday through Saturday), and three times on Sunday. During one early Sunday camp meeting it was said that such an enormous crowd of people (10,000) gathered that, besides the three regular services, two additional ministers preached simultaneously at different areas in Trinity Place, sometimes known as “The Circle”. In addition to attending services, families strolled along trails which wound their way through the woodlands of Mount Tabor and Tabor Lake.
Those campers unaccustomed to "roughing it" in tents the country could choose to board at the new Arlington Hotel. The hotel was built in 1877 by Trustee David Campbell with the understanding that when he had reimbursed himself from its income, the building would become the property of the association. However, over time the quaint Arlington fell into such disrepair it had to be taken down many years ago. Part of the foundation remains and is being used as a retaining wall for the town's parking lot.
Over the years, the crowds that swarmed into Mount Tabor for the annual Camp Meeting diminished except for a few hundred persons who decided to stay and set up year-round homes where tents once stood. Some older residents who attended the camp meetings believed the decreasing crowds were caused by regulations such as the one that prohibited parking of wagons on the campgrounds. This measure was enacted to deal with the numbers of people who came to the camp meetings purely for the pleasure of the surroundings. Traffic in the town would be banned from midnight Sunday to midnight Monday, much as it was in Ocean Grove until 1980. In 1911, as allowed by the charter of 1869, homes were established under a ninety-nine year lease to the Camp Meeting Association (home prices ranged from $300 to $2,500). In 1969, the ninety-nine year leases ended and were renewed as a perpetual lease. Mount Tabor homeowners (known as "Leaseholders") paid a yearly rent to the Camp Meeting Association for their lots with their town assessment and township taxes. The association rent is now proportionately low; two dollars per year for small lots and four dollars a year for the larger ones.
We saw many beautiful,extremely tiny houses, and went into the library branch that is in an old prayer building. We used out IPad to take the walking tour, and it worked great!
We went to Aunt Margaret's wake, and while it was sad, it was also happy. There were alot of people telling stories about her, including Uncle Joe who told us that she used to dress him up in girls clothes and tote him around!  We saw so many cousins and friends, and I told Meg that it was like a big party, and her Mom would have loved it!
The original meeting house, The Tabernacle

Trinty Place,  the three owners "joined resources" to make the most of the 3 lots. The home on the right has been owned by the same family since it was built.

reading descriptions of the house's on the ipad, it's a whole new world!

cast iron fountain placed in the park or the circle in 1875 at a cost of $225.00

eastern stick style architecture

Mount Tabor branch of the Parsippany-Troy Hills Library, note the eave trim, 4 columns were built in 1901 when the building was enclosed. At one time there was a map of the Holy Lands worked in coloured sand of the dirt floor of the then named Ebenezer Pavilion

everyone doing homework

New Jersey heaven! Taylor ham,egg and cheese on a russian bagel with saltpepperketchup!

I would drive 9 hours for this!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Quick trip to NJ

I am in NJ for my Aunt Margaret's funeral. She was 86, had altzheimers and had had a stroke last week. But you know what? They are always your mom or dad, no matter what, and you miss them like crazy when they are gone. I know my cousins do not expect me, but I feel like if you share the good times(shower and wedding last fall, party this summer)then you need to share the sad times too. This is where the homeschool thing comes in..we brought Dannys school box along, and he can work and field trip around the area. Hope it goes well!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

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a moving memorial dedication for the Sept. 11th victims

This morning we headed down to town and walked across the tridge to the Brighton Fire House. They firefighters had completed a two year application process and were chosen to receive one of only 1200 pieces of the twin towers which were given to the world. The pieces are in every state and 4 continents, there is even a piece in Afghanistan. Once Brighton found out they had been chosen to get a section community groups and local businesses all supported the project. The dept drove 24hours roundtrip last April 27 to Kennedy Airport to pick up the section of steel. It is not known whether it is from the north or south tower, but it was a central core piece which had utilities running through the large hole in the center.  The two hour ceremony was very moving, from the bagpiper leading in the flags, with their honor guard of former servicemen and women, the street closed and displaying a long row of shining clean emergency vehicles, a giant US flag suspended in the air from the top of two hook and ladder trucks. a gun salute and the playing of taps as a wreath and turnout gear were layed at the foot of the memorial. There were alot of tears.  Senator Mike Rogers spoke, as did Jerry's bball pal Congressman Bill Rogers. A Fire Chief of Brighton who grew up in North Jersey spoke about a good friend from highschool who helped clear the rubble and search the area for about 6 months post 9/11 and succumbed 4 years ago to respiratory disease. The most moving and hopeful speaker was a priest from St. Paul Episcopal Church in Brighton. He was attending seminary in NYC and came up out of the subway just in time to look up and see the plane crash into the tower. He ended up as a chaplain on the site for several months. The ceremony was great and I am so glad we went, kinda felt like that was the least we could do, to in a small way honor these folks by being present, by remembering as a community, and going forward from 9/12 to make the world a better place.